Tickled Pink

I love domming.

I had no idea how much more fun it would be to dom at the Gates than to sub. A guess, perhaps, but not certainty.

Today I had the sweetest little sub come in for a tickle session, and it was just so lovely hooking him up to the suspension bar and setting him quivering this way and then that. And making him close his eyes as I tried out different toys and tools on him.

It's a totally different feeling from subbing. And, for me, at the Gates, much more empowering. I'm not worried about how I'm feeling, not worried about my boundaries... instead, I'm completely engrossed in how he's feeling, in respecting his boundaries, in creating a palette of sensations... There's very little worry there. Just focus. And when it's working, when I see him reacting more and more, when I hear him inhaling suddenly in response, it's just lovely.

By the end, he was quivering at even the slightest little touches. Excellent.